"Hope and wish are just for losers" that's what an American movies tell us about especially for action movies. it is fragile for a control tower (a quarterback, a teacher, a leader, a president and etc) to have those stuffs. a control tower should have a logic thought must be gained from facts and numbers.
but there is a thing mistaken from an American movie basis. hope is also owned by a winner. but it is different from what a loser has. winners' hope and dream is like a thing produces revenge. "Dreaming" is like chasing the ones we really hate so much. they keep mocking us while we are falling. it makes you burn in anger, don't you?.
and for a "dream", if you keep chasing your dream you can say that the dream also keep chasing you. sometimes you fall continuously. but if you let the dream provokes you, it is as bad as over. if you are angry with "dream's" provocative talks, it is also game over. dream will always be laughing at you, mocking you, and making your failure a laughing-stock until it gets imprisoned by boredom, then leaves you. so then there is a moment when you will search for another dream. and when you fail in catching it, you will search for another dream, you fail and seek for another fail and seek for another, and then your failure will become your habit.
even after you had succeeded in catching your another dream, your previous dream is still haunting and mocking you. would you keep silent after hearing the dream's mocking? would you still sit idly after you hear something like this?
"hahaha, you have succeeded in catching my friends, other dreams, but still you're such a coward dude, it is your incapability in catching me. of course i can see your greatness now, and i also see how extremely weak you are. and it is easy enough for me to crush your pride by using this card i have of your past failure, kekekekeke".
you can ignore the dream's saying but it will continuously provoke you until you get burnt in flames of revenge. but if you try to catch it with anger, you had already fallen for its trap.